When "they" fall short !!

"They" are the perfect means of communication. A communication of expression and feelings. "They" are very powerful. But still there are times in your life when "they" really fall short. There are times when silence speaks louder and clearer.Times, when one wants to say a lot, but is not able to..for some reasons.. Then comes the time when silence speaks.. Believe it or not silence does speaks, but it really needs an understanding. The sound of silence can be heard only by your near and dear ones.As the author of this post..I can really say "they" matter a hell lot then anyone could have imagined. "They" are no less than a channel or strategy. "They" are so damn powerful and strong that "they" are capable of twisting and turning your life in just a few seconds.

The strength that can shake your whole world..Sometimes "they" are as toxic as the radioactive waste and sometimes "they" are as luving as a mother. But still they do fall short unlike a mother's luv which is abundant !!

Sometimes there are junctures when you want to say a lot, but you are in a quandary that..whether is it the right time to come out with "them" ?

Few occasions, Few moments, Few expressions makes muteness comes its way. You often hear 'Silence does not matter,it's not strong..it has no power'. Silence is no less powerful.

I'm in accord with those who think people take silence in a wrong direction because..it can only be understood by the ones who understands you by your heart..one who knows you from inside..Those who don't wanna think like this are made to think coz they become a part of the crowd. One of my professor said " People loose their originality when they become a part of the crowd.That's the reason for the Godhra communal violence."

Your Mom who is close to you..Mom who knows what her child wants to say or rather is not able to say..There is just a need of perfect comrade or partner to understand the silence... Can be anyone from your family, a SPECIAL friend, whoever but it is always the dear ones who understands you the most.

Another way of an unsaid silence, is the tendency to hide ourselves under the bivouac of jokes, timepassers .
An in depth reading of your mind, heart and soul thats all silence needs !! It can be understood from deep down your hearts and expressed. Few of "them" and thoughts does not need an expression they are understood on their own.

Well..the pronouns "they" "them" (with quotes) referred to WORDS. WORDS DO FALL SHORT !!

Someone rightly said "Words and hearts should be handled with care for words when spoken and hearts when broken are the hardest things to repair".

Silence speaks and speaks a lot but words fall short too....Just a need to understand those words.. Those who really can understand these words are the luckier ones...


Are you one of em ??


Jai Maddieee Baba

Comments

  1. Vaibhav JainThursday, September 04, 2008 5:34:00 PM

    children... an exercise...read the passage and count the number of "they" and "them".. :Pon a serious note.. very well written and very true.. and please avoid using the "Jai Maddiee Baba" at the end of serious and thought-provoking posts

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  2. UnknownMonday, March 04, 2013 3:40:00 AM

    "Jai Maddieee Baba" ye naam engg ki den hai kya Madhur Sir...!!

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